After graduation, the separation is continuously pulled away
Do you also have such an experience:
after work every day, I don’t know what to do, do nothing, play games, chase dramas, brush up my circle of friends, I can’t stop playing with my mobile phone, and play until two or three o’clock in the morning, second After getting up, the body and mind are exhausted, and the mood at work is like going to the grave. When you try to change yourself, plan well, exercise, read, learn English… But after work every day, dragging your tired body home, you can’t help but say to yourself: today is too tired, and I will talk tomorrow Well… So, the good plan dragged on. Year after year, I feel that I have not improved much except for my weight.
Why does someone do nothing after getting off work and don’t know what to do, because he knows what he really needs? If you want to improve yourself, first of all, you need to think about what you want, for example, you want to lose weight, you want to learn English, you want to study, you want to improve your professional skills, when you know what you want, then Is to make a suitable plan for yourself, monthly plan, weekly plan, daily plan, no plan, people will be very confused, with a plan, every day is executed according to the plan you made, pay attention not to start planning Set too much a goal, don’t put too much pressure on yourself. If the pressure is too great, people will easily give up. In the beginning, the main thing is to persevere and make a little progress every day. When you have completed your plan, reward yourself appropriately. Persistence is important.
Read more and learn more The
book’s own golden house has its own Yan Ruyu. The difference between people and people lies in their different ways of thinking. Only with your continuous learning can you improve your vision and change your way of thinking. None of the smart people around us dislike reading. You can learn your professional skills, you can also read some books about self-improvement, such as time management, energy management, thinking………only you keep learning, when there is an opportunity, you can grasp it.
I remember my teacher said: “At the age of 15, I found it difficult to swim. I gave up swimming. When I was 18, I met someone you like and asked you to go swimming. At the age of 28, there is a great job that requires English, so you have to say’ I won’t.’ .”
Participate in some high-quality communities
. Due to the limitation of thinking and vision, a person grows slowly. To grow fast, participate in a high-energy circle. For example, there are many reading groups, writing groups, financial management groups, and self-discipline groups. , Weight loss group. There are many people who have the same goals as themselves. Everyone can share with each other, learn from each other, and supervise each other. Perhaps things that have been bothering you have been a little bit on demand, and you will wake up. Perhaps something you have never dared to try, with the encouragement of others, you have taken the first step in life.
Write a diary and review
how long you haven’t written a diary. Writing a diary is a good habit. By writing a diary, you can record your daily life, review your own gains and losses, not only can you reflect on yourself Behavior, but you can also exercise your logical thinking ability.
The only difference between success and mediocrity is whether you make good use of all your time. The time after getting off work determines the height of your life.
